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How to Be a Successful Writer: The Secret I Learned in Writing School

What is the secret to being a successful writer?

It’s the question every aspiring author asks themselves. And while personal definitions of success are different for each person, there is one universal rule that you need to succeed in any writing genre.

They never told us this was a rule. They slipped it in, silently every week, until it took over our writing.

What is writing school like?

I studied creative writing for both my bachelor’s and my master’s degrees. And while we were allowed to choose a writing concentration as well as a literary specialization for our reading courses, the classes were, overall, the same.

Each week we had some reading to do, discussions, and some writing assignments. We were writing stories weekly, and sometimes it required writing every day.

And that was the secret skill. The skill that many writers forget how to do:

We were taught how to write anytime, anywhere, and on deadline.

It’s a well-known fact that most writers never finish their first book. Most estimates put it at less than 5% of authors that complete their manuscript.

So, by those odds, you are a successful writer by simply being able to sit down and write.

I’ve met so many writers who tell me they struggle to sit down and write unless they are “in the mood.” But the secret to being a successful writer is to write.

Any day. Any time. Any mood.

Now, go write something.

Happy writing!

My Greatest Fear (As an Author)

I have mixed anxiety and depression, so almost anything can make me anxious. However, there is one thing that cripples my mind and my writing more than anything else.

I only recently started working on this fear, and so far it’s been going well. I’ve been writing and posting more, and I’ve felt more creative and more like myself lately. But even so, this fear still sits heavily on my chest.

So what am I so afraid of?

It’s NOT bad book reviews, or rejection letters from agents.

I have a fear of success.

It comes at me from both sides: part of myself believes I shouldn’t bother trying because I will fail anyway, and the other part of myself believes that even if I did succeed it wouldn’t last long, or I wouldn’t be able to handle the big change in my life that success might cause (like quitting my day job and becoming a full-time writer).

So, I sabotage my own career.

I stop myself from writing, I delete posts and stories that I write, and I trash email submissions of my work.

Is it because I haven’t been successful before?

No.

During the free giveaway weeks for two of my novels, they both were downloaded between 2 to 4 thousand times and reader number one in their categories on Amazon.

I’ve had short stories published through my university, online journals, and one that will be published in an anthology in the UK sometime in the next year.

But, I’ve also had some traumatic publishing experiences, including my family’s attempt to silence my writing career when I published my first debut novel. I was so excited to share my stories, but now I have to write in secret and stay silent around those closest to me when it comes to my stories.

How have I been working on my fear?

By writing something small every day. I set out a schedule for myself that consists of small posts or writing only a page or so a day. The more I check off that list, the more confident I become.

Seeing that nothing bad happens, and celebrating small wins has boosted my confidence and my creativity.

If you suffer from the same fear as me, I highly recommend setting up a simple checklist so you can grow your career one step at a time.

Finding Your Voice as a Romance Writer

If you had asked me a decade ago if I would be a romance writer, I would have said, “Hell no! That’s cheesy stuff. I want to be a serious writer.”

And yet, here I am. Not only am I a romance writer, but I’m proud to be one. The truth is that romance writing is just as powerful and important as other forms of writing. Romance stories have healed my life, and I hope my stories help others find healing, too.

But like many readers and writers, I fell for the misconceptions about the genre, believing it was just a bunch of nonsense written to entertain the masses with no depth or development. Now, some specific niches in the romance genre might be made simply for entertainment, and that’s perfectly fine, too.

But that’s just it: there are different niches for different people. And that’s great! But how do you find YOUR niche?

Finding your niche might feel a bit crazy because your writing style might differ from your reading style. Or, even crazier, it might be completely different from your lifestyle. (Quick examples include Dr. Seuss never having children and the great romance writer Jane Austen never marrying. And don’t get me started on Stephen King…)

So, to help you on your journey, here are 3 steps you can take today to start you on your romance writing path:

  1. What are your fantasies? Yikes, sorry to get so personal right off the bat here. But your personal, romantic fantasies can help guide your writing. Writing fiction is a lot of daydreaming and writing down your thoughts, so it can be easiest to start with things you already fantasize about. This can be as simple as fantasizing about a relationship built on mutual experiences, something cute like a Hallmark Christmas movie. And it can be as wild as whatever your deep, dark, secret “kinks” are. Whatever you like to think about, try writing it down.
  2. What do you like to read? Writers are also avid readers. So, when it comes to romance (even if it was just a subplot), what types of relationships do you usually enjoy reading about? Are they enemies to lovers? Love triangles? Maybe you like paranormal romance and want to get down on some werewolf action. Whatever niche you enjoy as a reader could also help guide you as a writer.
  3. Ask yourself what is missing from the romance market. My sister always told me if I didn’t find the kind of painting I wanted at the store, I should just paint it myself. This is true of writing, too. If there is a type of romance story you have always wanted to read but have struggled to find it anywhere, that’s a great place to start for writing a book! Chances are, someone else is looking for it, too.

Hopefully, these helped you out. Don’t forget to subscribe to my blog for more writing tips!

Happy writing 🙂

5 Tips for Character Development

If you have found some of your recent characters to be flat, or maybe they just don’t feel as real as they do in your head, here are 5 tips to help your characters become the best versions of themselves!

  1. Give them a few quirks. Characters, like real people, should have little things that make them unique. Everything from a favorite food or color to a superstition or pet peeve. If you can show your characters with these little things, the readers will be able to better relate to them and create more meaningful connections with the characters.
  2. Backstory… All your characters existed and had lives before their debut moment in the book. So, even if a character seems too small to have a backstory, write them one. Even just a few sentences can go a long way in making sure the character has authentic interactions with the others.
  3. Good or Bad? Both! No one is all good or all bad. Even fictional characters. So, make sure you give your protagonists flaws and your antagonists a shred of goodness. It will round them out as a complete person. No one is perfect, and they shouldn’t be, either.
  4. Goals. Like with the backstory, make sure your characters all have a goal they want to achieve including the “why” they want to do it. Even if you never plan to let them achieve this goal, or it seems too small or too distant from the main plot to matter, make sure your characters all have hopes and dreams that get them out of bed in the morning. We all do, and your readers will appreciate having that in common with the characters.
  5. Picture them. If you don’t have their physical appearance down to the tiny details, find some free stick photos and choose one that will represent your character when you write. Sometimes we just need a little visual boost to get our descriptions just right.

I hope these help you in your writing journey!

Happy writing 🙂